Your profile is your first impression. It is the one chance you have to show someone who you really are before they decide to reach out. A great profile does not have to be long, but it should be honest, personal, and give people a reason to want to know you better.
Here is an example of a profile that works well. Notice how it shares personality, values, and what the person is looking for without being too generic or too long.
I consider myself to be an easy-going, laid back guy. I don’t like a lot of drama. I shoot straight and I am easy to figure out, meaning I am not too complicated. I mean what I say and say what I mean. I have made my success following this principle. If I say I am going to do something, I do it.
I have found that life is easier if I listen much and talk little; however, I do enjoy a stimulating conversation. My belief is that life should be about contribution and not collection. Though I enjoy “things,” I have found that those things we give out of our heart last much longer than the luster of the things we collect.
I am looking for friendships first. I would like to meet someone that I can grow with, someone that is always looking for more out of life. If this is you, I am interested in talking with you. If you are excited about life and what tomorrow brings, shoot me a message.
What makes this work? He is specific about who he is. He shares his values without preaching. He ends with a clear invitation. Someone reading this can actually picture what a conversation with him might be like.
I am a God-fearing man looking for a God-fearing woman. I love church and worship. Message me if you want to know more.
There is nothing wrong with any of that, but it could describe almost anyone on this site. It does not tell someone what makes you different. When someone reads your profile, they should feel like they are getting a glimpse of who you actually are, not just a list of qualities everyone shares.
Instead of “I love music,” try “I play piano at my church and I have been learning hymns since I was twelve.” Details make you memorable.
Instead of saying “I am funny,” share something that shows your sense of humor. Let people see your personality through your words.
Be clear about what kind of connection you are looking for. Friendship first? Ready for something serious? People appreciate honesty up front.
Write like you are talking to someone, not filling out a form. A friendly tone goes a long way in making someone feel comfortable reaching out to you.
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